Comments on: 1979 : wolf http://thedirtygirldiaries.com/the-diary/1979-wolf/ A former Go-Go girl's love affair with Times Square. Old school - No clothes, No tassles, No rules Wed, 20 Jul 2011 20:03:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: jshdoff http://thedirtygirldiaries.com/the-diary/1979-wolf/#comment-89 jshdoff Fri, 11 Sep 2009 02:56:01 +0000 http://thedirtygirldiaries.com/?p=884#comment-89 Juel - The problem for me has always been, I can recognize obsession when I see it walking down the street, but god-damn if I ain't always giving it the keys to my house and my heart. Now that my mom is older, I can see that what I thought of as a marraige she was "trapped" in, was a mutual agreement. Being the object of obsession can be very intoxicating. I think, for some of us, when who've had nothing or felt invisible, just a little touch of romance is enough. But for those of us who've numbed ourselves out, as a method of survival, we can't even feel that gentle touch -- but the overwhelming, all encompassing experience of obsession- that we can feel. That makes us feel whole, visible. Real. These days, I'm not giving anyone the keys to my house and my heart is by invitation only. thanks for writing and for reading your own, dirtygirl Juel –

The problem for me has always been, I can recognize obsession when I see it walking down the street, but god-damn if I ain't always giving it the keys to my house and my heart. Now that my mom is older, I can see that what I thought of as a marraige she was "trapped" in, was a mutual agreement. Being the object of obsession can be very intoxicating. I think, for some of us, when who've had nothing or felt invisible, just a little touch of romance is enough. But for those of us who've numbed ourselves out, as a method of survival, we can't even feel that gentle touch — but the overwhelming, all encompassing experience of obsession- that we can feel. That makes us feel whole, visible. Real.

These days, I'm not giving anyone the keys to my house and my heart is by invitation only.

thanks for writing and for reading

your own,

dirtygirl

]]> By: Juel Duke http://thedirtygirldiaries.com/the-diary/1979-wolf/#comment-45 Juel Duke Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:03:58 +0000 http://thedirtygirldiaries.com/?p=884#comment-45 Romance is flowers, serenades and evidence that you're important even when you aren't there. If you're given it-hope it lasts. Passion is dangerous, powerful and tiring if it lasts so long but worth it even then. Obsession is problematic if it can't be controlled. Romance is flowers, serenades and evidence that you’re important even when you aren’t there. If you’re given it-hope it lasts. Passion is dangerous, powerful and tiring if it lasts so long but worth it even then. Obsession is problematic if it can’t be controlled.

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